About 3 weeks ago, my 14th year old cousin, Ben was in a horrible accident. He was in school and was choked by one of his friends, causing him to have a seizure, drop to the ground, and break his skull.
Hours after being admitted to the hospital, they were draining his brain of blood and told everyone that it doesn't look promising for him. My Dad rushed up to Buffalo to be with them. But, as days went by, he was awake, then he was trying to speak to my Dad, but words couldn't be made out. But as the day went on, he was able to speak...then he was walking!
Now he has 2 metal plates in his skull, and is getting better and better each day.
The song, "The Show Goes On" by Lupe Fiasco reminds me of him.
"All right, already
The show goes on
All night 'til the morning
We dream so long
Anybody ever wonder
When they would see the sun go
Just remember when you come up
The show goes on..."
You're a fighter, Ben!
Monday, February 28, 2011
Sunday, February 27, 2011
Realizations.
I love my life, and every single part of it. I can't say I would change one part. I'm realizing that more and more everyday.
I realize how lucky I am with...
Tyler. It's not every woman that can find a man who loves her unconditionally, and solely her, unconditionally. I'm so thankful that I was one of those woman to find someone who does. He's incredibly selfless, and it is such an amazing trait.
When I met Tyler, I had no idea he had such bad family issues. His dad has never taken care of his mother, never been her supporter, and surely never helped her through all the hardships parenting, and life itself offers. He never showed his children real compassion and love, and thinks that he can only do so by providing his children with money, gifts, etc. Typically, you would think Tyler would learn how to be a man from his father, and think that's how woman should be treated. But, he is the total opposite. His father was never there for him, or his siblings. He lives 3 hours away (despite the fact that he is married to his wife), and leaves his mother to parent their younger children alone, because he chooses to work and live so far. I know it pains Tyler to see his mother do it alone because of his selfish father, who is living a different life elsewhere because that's what he chooses to do.
I'm so thankful that I found someone who saw the horrible side of a man, and dedicated himself to never be that to me, or most importantly, his children. I know our son isn't here yet, but his dedication and commitment to Caden already shows me his true love. He is constantly making sure I'm feeling not only good, but great. He is making sure that if he can't make a doctor appointment, that he knows every detail as if he were there. He is making sure our son has all he needs, and more. And most importantly, he is making sure that our son will always know he is loved. He tells me all the time he never wants to be like his father. He tells me that he is so thankful for my parents, because they offer him a loving and supporting pair. It means the world to me that he is excited about being a father.
He tells me I'm beautiful everyday. He comes home after a hard days of work and school asking what he can do to give me a break from cleaning, and preparing for our son. He finds ways to still surprise me with gifts. He is the exact man I always wanted to fall in love with, and I am so blessed to have him.
My family. My family are the best people I know. My parents have been together since they were 13, have been friends since kindergarten, had their first child (my brother) at 16, and were married at 21. They have been together 23 years, and are still in love. Some people fall out of love after so long, and the marriage becomes dull and boring. I can see it in my parents that it isn't that way. They are the happiest people I know. They go on dates, vacations, concerts, etc. and don't settle for "we've been married forever, it just fades". They show me that true love does exist, and you CAN be in love forever. They show me there is a perfect person out there, and you don't have to settle for just anyone. I aspire to have their marriage and love in one year, as well as thirty years. They taught me to never let your relationship wither away because you just "don't have time" or "you're busy with kids" or "you've been together so long, you just know you love each other, so why bother".
When Tyler and I told them we were pregnant, they were excited for us. They have been amazing parents. I have loved and cherished them every single day of my life, that I hope to be as good of parents as them, but if I'm only half as good, I will still be amazing.
Tyler loves my parents like his own. He calls my parents for advice and support. He looks up to them as parents, a couple, and individuals, and as do I.
My parents have given me and my brother the best life there is. We are incredibly close, and I wouldn't trade that for the world.
I realize how lucky I am with...
Tyler. It's not every woman that can find a man who loves her unconditionally, and solely her, unconditionally. I'm so thankful that I was one of those woman to find someone who does. He's incredibly selfless, and it is such an amazing trait.
When I met Tyler, I had no idea he had such bad family issues. His dad has never taken care of his mother, never been her supporter, and surely never helped her through all the hardships parenting, and life itself offers. He never showed his children real compassion and love, and thinks that he can only do so by providing his children with money, gifts, etc. Typically, you would think Tyler would learn how to be a man from his father, and think that's how woman should be treated. But, he is the total opposite. His father was never there for him, or his siblings. He lives 3 hours away (despite the fact that he is married to his wife), and leaves his mother to parent their younger children alone, because he chooses to work and live so far. I know it pains Tyler to see his mother do it alone because of his selfish father, who is living a different life elsewhere because that's what he chooses to do.
I'm so thankful that I found someone who saw the horrible side of a man, and dedicated himself to never be that to me, or most importantly, his children. I know our son isn't here yet, but his dedication and commitment to Caden already shows me his true love. He is constantly making sure I'm feeling not only good, but great. He is making sure that if he can't make a doctor appointment, that he knows every detail as if he were there. He is making sure our son has all he needs, and more. And most importantly, he is making sure that our son will always know he is loved. He tells me all the time he never wants to be like his father. He tells me that he is so thankful for my parents, because they offer him a loving and supporting pair. It means the world to me that he is excited about being a father.
He tells me I'm beautiful everyday. He comes home after a hard days of work and school asking what he can do to give me a break from cleaning, and preparing for our son. He finds ways to still surprise me with gifts. He is the exact man I always wanted to fall in love with, and I am so blessed to have him.
My family. My family are the best people I know. My parents have been together since they were 13, have been friends since kindergarten, had their first child (my brother) at 16, and were married at 21. They have been together 23 years, and are still in love. Some people fall out of love after so long, and the marriage becomes dull and boring. I can see it in my parents that it isn't that way. They are the happiest people I know. They go on dates, vacations, concerts, etc. and don't settle for "we've been married forever, it just fades". They show me that true love does exist, and you CAN be in love forever. They show me there is a perfect person out there, and you don't have to settle for just anyone. I aspire to have their marriage and love in one year, as well as thirty years. They taught me to never let your relationship wither away because you just "don't have time" or "you're busy with kids" or "you've been together so long, you just know you love each other, so why bother".
When Tyler and I told them we were pregnant, they were excited for us. They have been amazing parents. I have loved and cherished them every single day of my life, that I hope to be as good of parents as them, but if I'm only half as good, I will still be amazing.
Tyler loves my parents like his own. He calls my parents for advice and support. He looks up to them as parents, a couple, and individuals, and as do I.
My parents have given me and my brother the best life there is. We are incredibly close, and I wouldn't trade that for the world.
Saturday, February 26, 2011
Our baby shower!
Our baby shower couldn't have went more perfect! I had my reservations before the shower, about how many people were coming, accepting gifts from people I didn't know well, the food, etc. but needless to say, it was perfect.
Around 35 people showed up, and it was totally a full house! But, the decorations all were so cute. I got to Tyler's mom's with my mom around 12:30, and we decorated, finished getting together the food and setting up. Tyler was there waiting for his brother so they could meet all the guys at BW3s. He got me a beautiful light blue, white, and yellow bouquet with a "It's a Boy" balloon!
The day flew by! Everyone seemed to have a great time, it was fun, relaxing, and exciting! It made things set in a little bit more, I couldn't believe that I was at my baby shower...
We got SO many amazing gifts. His closet is literally packed, and his dresser is just as packed. We got so many diapers, towels, toys, etc. we have all our things we need for our little guy. We were also lucky to get gift cards and money, so we finished up our shopping on Thursday and it was a lot of fun to pick out what we wanted, without spending our own money. I had a blast!
We are so blessed to have such an amazing family who loves and cares for us so much, but not only us, our son. I see the love around us everyday, but the shower truly showed me how loved our son already is. I can't believe that he is going to be here soon soon, and I literally can't wait to hold my tiny little boy :)
Around 35 people showed up, and it was totally a full house! But, the decorations all were so cute. I got to Tyler's mom's with my mom around 12:30, and we decorated, finished getting together the food and setting up. Tyler was there waiting for his brother so they could meet all the guys at BW3s. He got me a beautiful light blue, white, and yellow bouquet with a "It's a Boy" balloon!
The day flew by! Everyone seemed to have a great time, it was fun, relaxing, and exciting! It made things set in a little bit more, I couldn't believe that I was at my baby shower...
We got SO many amazing gifts. His closet is literally packed, and his dresser is just as packed. We got so many diapers, towels, toys, etc. we have all our things we need for our little guy. We were also lucky to get gift cards and money, so we finished up our shopping on Thursday and it was a lot of fun to pick out what we wanted, without spending our own money. I had a blast!
We are so blessed to have such an amazing family who loves and cares for us so much, but not only us, our son. I see the love around us everyday, but the shower truly showed me how loved our son already is. I can't believe that he is going to be here soon soon, and I literally can't wait to hold my tiny little boy :)
Allow me to catch up, it's been a crazy past week!
A few things I need to catch up on:
- My birthday
- My baby shower
- Caden's room is *almost* all done!
Friday, February 18, 2011
YAY
No pre-eclampsia :) Wonderful news! They're closely monitoring me with doctor visits 2 times a week, but my BP is back down to normal - phew.
It's a very busy weekend. Tonight, we're going to dinner for Papa's birthday, and there's lot of stuff we need to get ready for the baby shower. Tomorrow, we have our hospital tour, and my birthday dinner at P.F. Changs...mmm! Sunday is the baby shower, and my birthday! Yay :)
I can't believe how quickly time is flying and that this weekend is my baby shower, oh wow. Almost March, and that means almost Caden!
It's a very busy weekend. Tonight, we're going to dinner for Papa's birthday, and there's lot of stuff we need to get ready for the baby shower. Tomorrow, we have our hospital tour, and my birthday dinner at P.F. Changs...mmm! Sunday is the baby shower, and my birthday! Yay :)
I can't believe how quickly time is flying and that this weekend is my baby shower, oh wow. Almost March, and that means almost Caden!
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
Praying for no pre-eclampsia
Today at the doctor, my blood pressure was 150/94, and they found some protein in the urine sample. They sent me for some blood work, and I will get the results tomorrow. Hoping and praying it's not pre-eclampsia because that ontop of Step B is no fun. I'm doing the glucose test Friday and that BETTER come back negative. Caden, just come safe - that's all I want :)
Monday, February 14, 2011
Happy Valentine's Day!
Happy Valentine's Day! Baby's "first" Valentine's. He was treated with some very yummy food! Tyler worked and had school, so we only have a few hours together in the middle of the two until he gets home at midnight, so I surprised him with this yummy lunch :)
Sadly, my camera charger broke with all the pictures of his newly painted room so I will have to wait to upload those pictures until after the charger comes!
I gave him a frame last year, with a picture of us in it. So, this year I did the same with a picture of the two of us from our maternity session. I'm going to make it a tradition every year to give a picture of us (well, next year us and Caden!) so over the years it will be fun to see how things change, and have it be a fun tradition. Also, last year I made heart pizza too :) Looks like we have a Valentine's Day tradition!
Sadly, my camera charger broke with all the pictures of his newly painted room so I will have to wait to upload those pictures until after the charger comes!
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
Starting the baby shower centerpieces!
They aren't decorated yet but, I love them! The colors are so pretty and they look good together :) The colors will be the "theme" of the baby shower, since the invites were the same colors, as well as the napkin wraps I ordered!
The pretty paper all cut up:
The pretty paper all cut up:
The "star" view, ballons get attached to them in the center and the balloon's string runs through the center:
And here's the part that I'll decorate, and put our maternity pictures/ultrasound pictures in:
Monday, February 7, 2011
Finally getting started!
YAY! Finally starting. Although I'm scrapbooking, and creating a memory box - those things won't be filled with the day-to-day joys that are to come, but this will hold all of them!
Tomorrow, I will be 33 weeks pregnant and time is FLYING! I can't believe how quickly things have been flying by. His room is painted, and waiting the second coat tonight. It's all becoming so real, his closet is totally full, his furniture is waiting to be set up, and there are diapers are piling up. Our baby shower is in 13 days, oh my! I'm having so much fun planning for everything for our son, I just can't seem to wrap my head around the fact that I'm not just planning for this little person who steals all my food, energy, and comfort that he's going to be his own person in 7 short weeks!
I can't wait for him to be here, but at the same time I am enjoying this. I'm enjoying perfecting his little room, and our house for him, enjoying guessing what he'll look like, or how it will be to see Tyler with him for the first time. We're enjoying the last few weeks as it being "just us". We've never been more happy together, and apart, and I know our joys will be magnified by so much when Caden is actually here!
Everyone is excited to meet you Caden, but enjoy your time baking in there :)
Tomorrow, I will be 33 weeks pregnant and time is FLYING! I can't believe how quickly things have been flying by. His room is painted, and waiting the second coat tonight. It's all becoming so real, his closet is totally full, his furniture is waiting to be set up, and there are diapers are piling up. Our baby shower is in 13 days, oh my! I'm having so much fun planning for everything for our son, I just can't seem to wrap my head around the fact that I'm not just planning for this little person who steals all my food, energy, and comfort that he's going to be his own person in 7 short weeks!
I can't wait for him to be here, but at the same time I am enjoying this. I'm enjoying perfecting his little room, and our house for him, enjoying guessing what he'll look like, or how it will be to see Tyler with him for the first time. We're enjoying the last few weeks as it being "just us". We've never been more happy together, and apart, and I know our joys will be magnified by so much when Caden is actually here!
Everyone is excited to meet you Caden, but enjoy your time baking in there :)
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